Top 5 Reasons Monogamous Couples Enjoy Sex Toys

Published by Rebecca Sinclair on October 21st, 2010

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Wondering if there is a place for sex toys is in a healthy, monogamous relationship? Here are the top five ways sex toys can enhance your lovemaking.

  1. Get to know yourself. A vibrator can give a woman the opportunity to explore her own body with or without her partner. The more she knows about what turns her own, the better the orgasm. Some women are comfortable with self-exploration with a partner watching, and some would prefer to play alone and have a little show-and-tell later.
  2. Get to know you partner. Sex toys give you an extra hand when you need it most. Couple a vibrator with oral sex, a wand with an intimate massage, or use a bullet for erogenous zone stimulation. Watch her reaction and see what works!
  3. Prostate exploration. The prostate is often referred to as the male g-spot because of the intense orgasm that stimulation can produce. In a heterosexual relationship, specially-designed sex toys are the best way to explore this new pleasure zone.
  4. Partner play. A variety of toys including cock rings, bullets, and vibrators, can be used along with vaginal intercourse. The extra stimulation can intensify the orgasm for both partners without taking the place of traditional lovemaking. Consider a toy an enhancement, not a replacement.
  5. Fantasy fulfillment. Sex toys can also allow you to explore fantasies including bondage, double penetration, and threesomes within the comfort of your own home. Start small and see where the mood takes you. When used with respect to both partners, sex toys can add depth to a healthy relationship.

Communication is essential. If your partner is reluctant, discuss the holdbacks and work through them together. If both partners are willing, however, get ready to enjoy a whole new variety of lovemaking. What about you? Are you in a healthy monogamous relationship?

What role (if any) do sex toys play in your bedroom? Tell us about it. Comment below.

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Beeman's picture
I love the adventure and
Submitted by Beeman on Mon, 2010-11-08 23:34.

I love the adventure and variety sex toys can bring to a monogamous relationship. They keep things new and exciting with so many different ways to play together.

Mixcoca's picture
I love sex toys
Submitted by Mixcoca on Mon, 2010-10-25 23:02.

I think that sex toys play a great role in my husband and I sex life. I love toys because I love pleasuring myself, also I love when I teach my husband how I liked to be touched with my toys. Toys make love making interesting because there is so many types and its great to experiment with all of them.