Married with Children: The truth about sex during pregnancy

Published by Rebecca Sinclair on August 5th, 2010

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Pregnancy can be a complicated time for a couple’s sex life. Her hormones are going crazy, her belly is getting bigger, and dad may just not know where (or if) he fits in. Though this is not a substitute for your doctor’s advice, here are some general rules of thumb for sex during pregnancy.
 
1. In a normal, healthy pregnancy, making love is not a problem for the mother or baby. And even though the vision of the baby’s head being rythmically assaulted may cross your mind, the truth is that you will never make contact. As long as you are both willing and creative, sex during pregnancy can be GREAT!
 
2. If you have a difficult pregnancy, or if you are at risk of preterm labor, always consult your doctor about limitation of sexual activities. Even if your pregnancy is "normal" make sure you ask before adding oral or toys to your play. Both may have limitations while pregnant.
 
3. As your pregnancy progresses, positions may require more creativity. Doggy style with the stomach supported by a pillow, may soon become your go-to position of choice. Check out Better Sex's guide to Sex During Pregnancy for more great ideas.
 
4. Cut the hormones some slack. Some women find themselves very horny during pregnancy, and some find themselves completely uninterested. Understand that any changes in sex drive during pregnancy will go away, as will the belly. Enjoy the highs, but don’t fret the lows.
 
5. Compliments go far. Dads often forget about how self conscious women can be while pregnant. I always felt like a whale! Men can have a tremendous influence on his woman’s desire to make love by complimenting her, massaging her as needed, and remembering her overall sensitivity to her looks. Doing this without expectation of sex will benefit both of you long-term.
 
What about you?
 
What is your experience with sex during pregnancy? We would love to hear your stories. Comment below.