"He" Replies to "She"

complicated, expectation, feely, flaw, fundamentals, guy, oral sex, replies, reply, sexual energy, strays, touchy - By He on Friday, May 14, 2010 - 12:02

The problem with your lead in is the fundamental flaw in your expectation. When you ask, "what makes you guys click" you're looking for a complicated touchy-feely answer. It's not that complicated. I'll be the first guy to admit that there is a range of men, and what we want from a relationship. The surprise for many women is that the range is pretty small. The #1 reason given by men who have strayed is that someone else made them feel "special". Special may mean, smart, attractive, desireable of something else, but all men I know have a real desire to be appeciated. When we start rolling around at 2am, and things are getting hot and heavy we want you to call our penis by something that makes us feel wanted. The same way you try to find something to compliment people on when you visit their house, you should do the same for every penis you meet. I am very proud of my penis, while at the same time insecure. Having a woman compliment it will make me more confident and probably much more willing put in the extra effort to please you like never before. I like the old stand-by "cock", because it sounds masculine. If I heard "Give me your love muscle" I think I would burst out laughing, which sometimes is fine, but if we're already taxiing down the runway, I want more steam and less laughing. When we collapse into a sweaty heap we can laugh when you call it almost anything. We've connected and feel great. Poking at my flacid cock and saying "so much for the love muscle" at that point makes me smile.

My sexual tree house

I want you to enter my sexual tree house when I don't expect it. Maybe the kids are in bed and I'm watching television zoning out on the couch. I would love for you to come over and kneel down in front of me and pull my pants down. Let me sit and close my eyes and experience all of that pleasure with no pressure to reciprocate (at least right then). No talking, no long talk, no kissing, just focus 100% of your sexual energy on pleasing me. Oral sex is something that I love and always look forward to.

My sexual GPS

I am not Chistopher Columbus, I want help pleasing you. I don't want you to say, "Hey Dumbass, over here!". I do like when you put your hand on top of mine and help me zoom in on your pleasure center. It helps that when you relocate me, you moan a little to send a clear signal to me so I know what just happened :-) Is it my turn now?

Question 1:

How can I get you to open up and want to experiment more?

Why He's Asking:

If I say, "let's try anal sex." It seems like I'm trying to push it on you, but if you ask about it, there's less pressure on both of us.

Question 2:

How do you feel about just watching me masturbate?

Why He's Asking:

Sometimes I would rather just rub one out but still like having you near me and mentally participating. Back to you grrl! Photo by: JMRosenfeld