Foreplay: Revving up HIS engine

Published by Rebecca Sinclair on June 21st, 2010

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There is lots of information on how a man can help his girl get in the mood, but we tend to think that men are always ready to go. Here are some ideas to help you break the habits of spending all the energy on female arousal and, instead, focusing some foreplay effort on him as well.

Need vs Want

Even when a man does not need the extra attention to get erect, that does not mean he does not want it or deserve it. Spend some time playing with and manipulating his erogenous zones. Let him know he is wanted and appreciated.

Shower Time

Some men love helping their lover wash her hair and lather up, but the great thing about showers is that they can be a two-way street. Consider washing his hair and lathering him up too. Rinse him off and then inspect every nook and cranny to make sure you got all the soap. The steam of the shower adds to the heat of foreplay.

Take the Long Route

Women have a tendency to fall into the trap of touching the same three or four buttons to get the erection going. Unlike a man who has to figure out what the roadmap to orgasm is for each encounter, women have it easier because a man’s roadmap is pretty consistent. Just because you know the shortcuts though, does not mean you should always take them. Sometimes enjoying a longer route to ecstasy is much more fun for all involved.

Ask and You Shall Receive

Communication is essential to great sex. While talking during sex can help a woman know that she is doing a good job, sometimes that can be difficult for a man to convey if he is enjoying himself. If that is the case, talk about it before or after. Talk about what you want, what you don’t want, what turns you on, and what doesn’t do it for you.

Great foreplay is possible for both partners, but it does take some work. Don’t take each other for granted!

Check back often as we continue the discussion of great foreplay. Next up: the male erogenous zones that you may not know about.

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