5 Better Sex Tips and Tricks

better sex, better sex tips - By Brandie on Thursday, November 11, 2010 - 14:40

Better Tips # 1: Better Respect Tonight

Most people agree that one of the biggest pleasures in a relationship is through mutual respect. At Better Sex we often hear from that developing intimacy requires developing a healthy respect for your mate. Remember what it was that drew you to our partner in the first place. What makes him/her feel like “home” to you? When you have these answers, treat them like mantras you repeat silently throughout the day. Over time, it will become an unconscious act. In those moments when you and your partner are not seeing eye-to-eye -- and these happen for everyone -- the memory of why you are with him/her will better renew the respect you have.

Better Tips # 2: Adult Movies

Adult Movies are a helpful method for spicing up your sex life. Whether or not you have a partner, watching adult films can certainly assist you in improving your skills as a better lover, but many of the better how-to videos and DVDs are extremely educational from a scientific standpoint. Many feature commentary by medical doctors and licensed sex therapists, who offer invaluable tips and knowledge about how the male and female body functions during sex. In addition to these better tips, you are often able to view real couples putting lessons they learned into practice, which serves to demonstrate that we are all capable of having better satisfying sex lives tonight and always.

Better Tips # 3: Fellatio Tips

Fellatio is the technical term for oral sex performed on a man. Its root is from the Latin verb meaning “to suck.” For many men, oral sex is a more intense experience than intercourse. This is due to the concentration of stimulation to the penis by mouth, tongue, and hands. Each man has different areas of concentrated sensitivity, so it’s important for a man to communicate what is pleasurable to him during oral sex.

TIPS: If he is not comfortable speaking out loud about his needs, he should gently guide his lover either with his hands or let her know when she’s doing the right thing by making some oral indication such as telling her he likes what she’s doing or sometimes even just a moan will send the message!

Better Sex Tips # 4: Prolonging Pleasure

As a general tip, the longer the stimulation, the larger the release. This is true physically as well as mentally. In order to better prolong pleasure during lovemaking and prevent male orgasm from occurring too soon, it’s important to start slowly. Even just talking to each other about the sex you’d like to have is a turn-on, and can initiate arousal. Once you begin to touch, you may wish to begin with a backrub or deep kissing before moving to intercourse. Once you do begin making love, you can also bring a man back from the brink of orgasm with a squeezing technique. 

TIPS: Just prior to his orgasm, put your thumb on one side of the base of the penis and the tips of your index and middle fingers on the other side, then squeeze.

Better Sex Tips # 5: Better Sensual Massage

Sexual technique is not always about doing super tricks in bed. Much of better lovemaking occurs before the act of intercourse even begins. In part, knowing how to be a good lover means knowing how to touch. Better Sensual massage is a wonderful way to connect to your partner, and to learn what feels better to him/her. It is also a very bonding act. Three basic types of massage can be practiced. There’s a general soothing massage, where you simply use oils or lotion and gently rub your lover’s body head to toe. In a body to body massage, you use your own body to assist in the massage, sliding up and down his/he back, using hair, nails or even playful bites. Some massage sessions may progress to masturbating your partner as part of the rub-down.

TIPS: Pay attention to your partner’s reactions as you massage or establish ahead of time what type of massage you will give/receive so that both of you achieve the maximum pleasure.

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