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Contrary to popular belief, humans simply cannot experience orgasm every time they’re sexually active. Male or female, you would be hard pressed to find the person for whom this happens. Yet the desire to have an orgasm more times than not is understandable, and realizing such has become a quest for many. Factors that lend themselves to a man or woman not experiencing climax on a consistent basis include:

• Psychological issues, such as obsessive/compulsive personality
• Interpersonal factors in the relationship
• Various fears
• Performance anxiety
• Drug/alcohol abuse
• Medications, including her birth control pill
• Nerve disorders
• A rigid, sexually repressive upbringing
• Childhood sexual abuse
• Shaming experiences related to one’s sexuality

Finally! The person you’ve been longing to meet is there – right in front of you! After months of seeing what else there is to sample at local wine tastings, after weeks of scoping out more than the game at various area sports events, and after nights of prowling the singles’ bar scene, somebody you actually fancy at first glance is there, ready to meet. So what are you doing getting cold feet??

Practically nothing feels worse than being in love (or lust) with somebody only to find that the feeling isn’t mutual. Far more than a little crush, unrequited love is powerful in that it involves an intense yearning for another. These times of unreturned affections are absolutely heartbreaking, with individuals feeling as though they literally are falling apart.

I like quickies, but I need quite a lot of foreplay to get ready for sex, at least if my own delicate bits are involved. I am more than happy to give my husband a blow-job in an instant, but I don’t enjoy being touched or penetrated until I am really wet and turned on. I’m young enough that my juices flow abundantly when I get hot, but old enough that it takes me a while to get aroused enough so that they do.

Quickies are, in their simplest form; quick sex.  The quickie has gotten a bad rap lately, as there's been so much push on romance, seduction and hours long sexcapades.  And while sex that lasts an hour or two can be incredible, sometimes it takes a 5 minute romp to help you have better sex all around.

What is a quickie?

A quickie is an act of sex that's spontaneous and is over in a very short amount of time.  Regarding which sex acts constitutes a quickie can be personal and relative to the individuals involved, however traditionally any sex act which leads to orgasm; blow job, fingering, vaginal intercourse.  

Tip # 1: Coital Alignment Technique

Tip # 1: Sex As Communication

In our continued exploration of sexual weaponry, we make a pit stop in couple’s hell: personal fights. Did you know that there is a right way and a wrong way to fight? In fact, productive fighting can actually be a very healthy part of a relationship. You just have to know how to do it.

A productive fight has five main characteristics.