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Quickies are, in their simplest form; quick sex.  The quickie has gotten a bad rap lately, as there's been so much push on romance, seduction and hours long sexcapades.  And while sex that lasts an hour or two can be incredible, sometimes it takes a 5 minute romp to help you have better sex all around.

What is a quickie?

A quickie is an act of sex that's spontaneous and is over in a very short amount of time.  Regarding which sex acts constitutes a quickie can be personal and relative to the individuals involved, however traditionally any sex act which leads to orgasm; blow job, fingering, vaginal intercourse.  

Tip # 1: Coital Alignment Technique

With college football and the NFL in full swing, you may soon find your weekend consumed with sports. That does not mean your sex life has to lag though! Here are some ways to make football WAY more than a spectator sport.

1.    Dress the part. Ladies, toss on a football jersey that is just long enough to let some sexy panties peak out from underneath them. Or for a little more pizzazz, consider a cheerleader uniform and pompoms. Any way you slice it, dressing for the occasion is bound to arouse some interest.

Looking for an easy way to add some playfulness to your sex life? How about a game of strip tag in the dark? I don’t mean “after dark,” I mean hands-on, feel-your-way-around, kinky dark! Here’s how.

Moving below the belt to find more male erogenous zones can be fun too. Obviously the penis and scrotum are on the list, but here are more points of interest on your tour of his body.

There is much more to a man than a penis. Just as women hate to be seen as only a pair of breasts, a nice butt, or a pretty face, and any woman that can learn to understand, respect, and manipulate the other erogenous zones will be a better lover in no time. Here is a glance at some often overlooked male love buttons from head to belt. Hair Lightly pulling a man’s hair during foreplay or sex can be a turn-on because it toys with a new level of eroticism. If a man prefers his hair not be pulled, the same erogenous zone can be manipulated more gently just by running your fingers through his hair. Discuss his likes and dislikes and respect his boundaries. Follow his cues to find out if you are pulling too hard or not hard enough.

There is lots of information on how a man can help his girl get in the mood, but we tend to think that men are always ready to go. Here are some ideas to help you break the habits of spending all the energy on female arousal and, instead, focusing some foreplay effort on him as well.

Need vs Want

Even when a man does not need the extra attention to get erect, that does not mean he does not want it or deserve it. Spend some time playing with and manipulating his erogenous zones. Let him know he is wanted and appreciated.

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