dr yvonne fulbright

With summer right around the corner, you and your beau may be strategizing hip, urban centers for your annual sightseeing tour. Only this year, in making the most of your getaway, why don’t you turn your city of choice into a sexy one? Cities from London to Paris to Rome have erotic scenes beyond your wildest dreams, just waiting to be tapped by pleasure-seekers.

In addition to booking your flight, choosing a hotel, and getting romantic restaurant recommendations, investigate where to go in cultivating your carnal side vis–à–vis local culture. Check out annual guides that are published exclusively on everything sex-related to a city, like Paris Sexy, getting leads on titillations like…

With oral sex no longer just some form of foreplay, fellatio and cunnilingus can be the ultimate exchange when it comes to sexual intimacy. For many, oral sex offers many people the best sexual pleasures to be had, and for that reason, receiving oral sex is a favorite sexual activity for many.

Every now and then couples enjoy freeing themselves from performance and self-responsibility by letting one partner completely take charge in the bedroom. Likewise, a person can become aroused by the power dynamic of having a doting partner, obeying one’s every desire – wanting to be a good love “slave.” Fulfill your fantasy of being overpowered or being overpowering in your love nest by doing the following...

Slip into your partner’s bed. If he/she is already sleeping, there are several ways you can awaken your lover:

o Gently rock him/her from a deep sleep, saying, “I’m not going to hurt you. Just keep your eyes closed and enjoy…”

Touch is not only the key to sexual pleasuring and arousal, but a fundamental human need for connectedness as well. From holding hands, to giving a massage, to getting a hug, touch conveys affection, caring, and love. With touch, two people can become one.

Sometimes simply lying closely with somebody can be one of the most intimate experiences. The great comfort it provides has no parallel. In sexual relationships, touch as foreplay has enormous potential, which two people can experience at many different levels. n focusing on touch in your relationship, why don’t you…

While a mother-to-be can take great pride in her budding form, feeling sexy in it can be another matter entirely. With pregnancy one of the most sensual times in a woman’s life, its becomes a peak time to cultivate feelings of sexiness that can invite more action at a critical point in a relationship. With sexual activity during pregnancy very much predicting just how well couples will do together post-birth, staying sexy and intimate is very important to the family in the long-term. Thankfully, there are plenty of ways for an expectant mum to feel like one hot mama with every trimester.

Don’t let the urge to purge define your sexy feelings over the long term.

Through good times or bad, you can always count on financial matters to cause relationship distress. It is, after all, one of the top reasons for divorce. Overwhelmed, frustrated, defeated, and depressed, lovers have the tendency to make their partner pay the price. Human tendency is to take our most significant relationship for granted, often at times when it needs attention the most.

Yet there is a silver lining to these costly clouds; such difficulties give partners a chance to re-evaluate what truly matters in this world. So if ever faced with money woes, consider this the perfect opportunity to rethink the way you approach intimacy in your relationship. Better yet, think of this as the perfect excuse to improve or revive it now!

It’s oral sex at its finest: sex communication. With couples often focused on sexual maneuvers or specific sex acts as the means to better sex, they often underrate the greater value in communicating about intimacy. In finding out if they’re on the same page or in learning about their lover’s pleasure preferences and sexual response, couples can realize more thriving sex lives with some moves of the mouth, and then some...

By far the biggest theme in all of the questions a sexologist gets is “Am I normal?” Kinky, bizarre, abnormal, weird… when it comes to sexual expression, people are very curious and concerned about just how well their sexual desires, fantasies, and practices fit the “average.” In sizing up their sexuality, they want to know numbers. Just how many individuals are into “XX”? Have the majority of people done “XX”? Just how “typical” is “XX”?

While survey reports should always be taken with a grain of salt, well-conducted survey data can provide people a great deal of relief about their sexual attitudes, behaviors, and values. Surveys can be useful in that they: