We certainly do love our men!  And we love giving them gifts.  However, at times choosing what to buy can be difficult at best, impossible at worst.  Plus, when your intended gift is more intimate, this adds a whole new level of difficult to gift giving. 

Hopefully this guide will help you narrow down your ideas so you can get your guy the perfect intimate gift!

Prostate Massagers

Prostate massagers are sex toys made for men and are designed to be inserted anally.  They typically have a slight curve, sometimes with a small bulbous end that is specifically designed to massage the prostate. 

Some vibrate, others do not.  They come made from several materials from glass to silicone.  Prostate stimulation is a natural, healthy and pleasurable activity for men.  Not only can it cause its own unique sexual pleasure but it can lead to enhanced orgasms for men as well as multiple orgasms after enough experience.

Examples: Rocks Off Naughty Boy Prostate Stimulator             Aneros MGX Prostate Stimulator

If your man is a beginner to anal play, a small sterilizable toy would be best.  A perfect example is the Pro Touch G-Spot Vibrator.  Though the name says “G-Spot” this toy is just as good, if not better, for P-spot or prostate stimulation due to its small girth.  This toy is small and unassuming so it’s perfect for a beginner to anal play.

Pro Touch Vibrator

Anal Toys

Anal eroticism is something that can be experienced by men and women alike regardless of their sexual orientation.  For men, anal stimulation doesn’t have to come solely in the form of prostate massage.  It can come in other forms as well from stimulating just the entrance of the anus to wearing butt plugs and using anal vibrators and dildos. 

Introducing anal play into your sexuality can increase stimulation, add variety and open you up to new forms of sexual pleasure.  When choosing an anal toy you want to ensure that it has a flared base so that it can be safely inserted without going too far and getting “lost.”  For materials try to stick to glass, metal or silicone; as they are fully sterilizable.

Examples: Silicone Ripple Butt Plug                                   Lelo Billy                                         Silicone Handmaiden Dildo

Masturbator Sleeves

While they may look funny to some, masturbator sleeves are sex toys that can help a man spice up his solo time as well as sex life.  With a variety of shapes, sizes and textures they can give him just as many different sensations as dildos and vibrators can give ladies!

Masturbator sleeves can mimic mouths, vaginas and anuses.  There are some larger ones that include both an anus and a vagina.  They come in multiple colors and some even have hair!  You can also find some with vibrators for added sensation.

Examples: Fleshlight Male Masturbator           Virtual CyberSkin Female Playmate                 Stroker Bud

Penis Pumps

While penis pumps cannot permanently enlarge a man’s penis, then can provide pleasure for men as well as temporarily engorge their member.

Examples: Rock Hard Pump Kit             Top Gauge Professional Pump                  Enhance Travel Pump System

Lube

While vaginas are typically self-lubricating, penises and anuses aren’t.  So, our men need to use personal lubricant or sex lube.  While any personal lubricant is good, there are some that are made for specific purposes; male masturbation, anal use, flavored, etc.

Examples:System JO H20 Anal Lube                             Jack Jelly                                       Gun Oil Lube Duo                   Better Sex Essentials® Liquid Personal Lubricant