Top Blowjob Mistakes

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Chances are, your male partner is a big fan of blowjobs. If he isn’t, then you may be doing something wrong. Very wrong. Oral sex can be a lot of fun for both partners and a great way to increase passion and sexual chemistry in bed together. If you and your partner aren’t frequently giving and receiving oral sex, then you’re missing out on a huge opportunity to share together sexually.

Some women aren’t very receptive to criticism with their blowjob techniques. For some, giving a blowjob is a chore that they do only when begged by their male partner. However, it shouldn’t be this way! If a woman can gain as much pleasure from oral sex as the man, it can lead to a much hotter sexual experience.

Here are some of the top mistakes that most women make when giving a blowjob:

1. Using your teeth. Most men will state this as the biggest and more frequent mistake that many women make when giving a blowjob. It’s easy to forget what you are doing and accidentally drag your teeth against his penis, but it’s an immediate deal breaker. You wouldn’t want a man to bite you, so using your teeth on his penis is the same idea. Use your lips generously and when in doubt, it’s better to drool and make a mess than risk cutting his penis with your teeth or even scraping them lightly across the skin. It can make what should be a highly pleasurable experience into an uncomfortable one immediately.
2. Giving in to the gag impulse. Anyone who has ever given a blowjob knows exactly what the problem is – the oral sex session gets hot and heavy and then the penis is pushed too far down the female partner’s throat. You gag and the guy is turned off. How can you prevent this? Watch out for this from the beginning and you won’t be stuck in this position. Don’t try to take in the penis all at once in the beginning and you can learn how to relax your throat and breathing so that you’ll know how far his penis can go before the gagging impulse takes over.
3. Men are often accused of skipping foreplay and women are often accused of ignoring “the boys.” When you want to give him mind-blowing blowjobs, don’t forget about his testicles. Don’t yank them and never grab or squeeze them; however, you can rub, lick and slowly, gently tug until you hear his moaning pleasures (rather than a grunt of pain!) Try licking the area between his two balls or taking one and then the other in your mouth. Each guy is different, but all of them love to have their balls (delicately) played with while getting a blowjob.

Get more tips and tricks with better oral sex techniques when you look for adult DVDs on blowjobs. You can find plenty of sex education videos that will help you to learn new and effective blowjob techniques that will make your man scream with pleasure and beg you for more and more blowjobs. And you’ll be amazed how much that will turn you on!

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