Sinclair Institute™ Videos Recommended to help Vanquish Monotony!

Got the bedroom blahs? Sinclair Institute™’s adult sex education DVDs can help! In the Charlotte Today TV news segment, “Managing Boredom in the Bedroom,” our very own Sinclair Institute™ adult sex education videos are recommended for couples looking to spice up their sex lives.  During the segment, Dr. Maureen Whelihan, President of the Center for [...]

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Role Reversal Part 3: Strap-On Fun

In these blogs we’ve been exploring the unique joys of Role Reversal, a sexual technique that puts the ladies in control while concentrating on her male partner’s pleasure. Not to say that the ladies don’t get their thrills from Role Reversal: most women are delighted to watch their men’s reactions while they do all the [...]

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Bunny Tales: Picking The Perfect Rabbit Vibrator

  One of the funniest episodes on HBO’s Sex and the City was Charlotte’s instant passion for her Rabbit vibrator, a pleasure so addictive that her friends finally had to stage an intervention just to get her out of the house. By 2006, the Rabbit was so popular that it inspired a Brit comedy movie [...]

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Exploring the Other Side: Role Reversal Part 2 — Toys

Exploring the Other Side: Role Reversal Part 2: Toys Wonder what it’s like being on the other side of sex – “switching places” with your partner? Lots of adventurous couples are doing just that with Role Reversal, also known as “Pegging” or “Bend Over, Boyfriend.” In our previous blog on the subject, we discussed how [...]

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Masturbators: The Art of the Stroke

Guys, we’ve come a long way since the days of Portnoy’s Complaint. For those of you too young to be shocked and/or hysterical with laughter at Philip Roth’s book, one of the funniest scenes was the ragingly horny teenaged Portnoy, unable to control himself after glimpsing a piece of uncooked liver. “…so now you know [...]

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Sex Toys That Travel!

It’s almost Spring Break, and it’s also time to start thinking ahead to summer. If your thoughts are turning to a warm vacation after a dreary winter, why not make your trip into an erotic getaway? Your hotel or motel room, that rustic cabin in the woods, or even your cozy tent in the mountains [...]

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Role Reversal: Exploring the “Other Side”

Part 1: The Fine Art of Prostate Massage Ever wonder what it feels like to be on the other side of sex? One of the hottest trends in sexual exploration these days is the Role Reversal position, sometimes known as “Pegging” or “Bend Over, Boyfriend.” More and more couples are finding out what it feels [...]

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Booty For Your Booty: Our Anal Sex Toys Guide

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Far from being a “taboo” subject these days, anal sex is becoming more popular as couples look for new ways to keep the spark in their sex lives. And part of the fun of anal play is discovering all the great toys made just for backdoor bliss! Let’s start with anal lubricant. Lube’s very important [...]

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Desire in the Doughnut Aisle: Aphrodisiac Foods

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If there’s one way to make grocery shopping way more interesting, it’s finding out how many innocent-looking foods turn out to be aphrodisiacs. Yep, you’ll find unbridled lust lurking everywhere from the produce aisle to the pastry case. (Doughnuts. Who knew?) Take your lover on your next shopping trip and before you know it, you [...]

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Strap-ons for Straight Guys

Bend Over Beginner Strap-On

As a sex educator, I get all kinds of questions about all kinds of sexual health subjects, but one of the most common questions–often asked in a whisper–is about strap-on sex.  Women tell me they’d like to wear a strap-on but are intimidated to try; men tell me they’d like their sweethearts to wear a [...]

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Masturbation Accessories for Men

Fleshlight & Better Sex Essentials Gel Lube

So often when one thinks of masturbating one pictures a man using his hand and a woman using a vibrator.  Many seem to believe that all men need to masturbate is their hand.  While this may be the case in the short term, there are many masturbatory aids men can use to enhance their self [...]

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Valentine’s Day Gifts for Couples

Triple Orgasm Cock Ring

There are many sex toys that couples can use.  Sex toys enhance pleasure and can increase orgasms for men and women.  Not only can these toys encourage and enhance pleasure, but many can lead to increased communication. Better communication and more pleasurable sex can lead to a better, happier relationship and a sexy Valentine’s Day [...]

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Giving Head: Beyond Blow Job “Technique”

Oral Sex He'll Never Forget

There’s some good advice out there about giving head, but there are a few secrets I’ve learned that I’ve never read anywhere else.  I love going down on my man, and I get a lot of positive feedback which suggests I am pretty darn good at it.  But I didn’t always enjoy giving a blow [...]

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Try Something New This Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day can often be stressful for couples, especially if they want to do something special for the day but are on a budget or nervous to get too kinky. However, you don’t need a whole cache of sex toys to do something special and sexual. There are many things you can do and try [...]

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Masturbation: Enhancing Partnered Sex and Improving Sexual Health

Better Sex® Lover's Guide to Self-Pleasuring

This past Monday night, on the episode “Sex, Porn and Secrets” from her new Oprah Network show In the Bedroom, Dr. Laura Berman talked with Karen and John, a couple who–for years–had shared wonderful sex together.  As life became more stressful, however, the frequency of their partnered sex began to wane until John revealed his [...]

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Lubes to Enhance Sex

WET® together™ his and hers personal lubricants

Nowadays personal lubricants can do much more than simply make your genitals slippery!  Along with lubes for specific purposes such as male masturbation, anal intercourse and stimulation, there are also warming, cooling and tingling personal lubricants. Stimulating gels and lubricants are designed to enhance pleasure and sensation in specific areas, usually the clitoris though you [...]

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Ways To Enjoy Porn

Sex Files; A Dark XXX Parody

Porn comes in many varieties.  From traditional all-sex-no-plot to how-to’s and romance stories you can find an adult movie for pretty much any taste.  So often porn is seen as something that is used during masturbation by men.  But this is hardly the true case!  Porn is used by all kinds of people in all [...]

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