Far from being a “taboo” subject these days, anal sex is becoming more popular as couples look for new ways to keep the spark in their sex lives. And part of the fun of anal play is discovering all the great toys made just for backdoor bliss!
Let’s start with anal lubricant. Lube’s very important in anal sex, since the body doesn’t produce natural lubricant in that particular “hot spot.” You need a specially-formulated sex lube that’s ultra-thick and super-slick, such as Better Sex Gel or the popular System JO Anal Silicone Lube.
Anal toys come in many sizes and styles, allowing you to “train” your sphincter muscles as you increase your experience with anal sex. For the most fun, start small, and take your time!
Anal Beads: These can be used in conjunction with intercourse. Beginners often start with anal beads because they’re so comfortable and easy to use. Plus, they can be used in the vagina, too, for a really different sensation. You can get them on “sticks” of soft flexible material like silicone or jelly, or beads on actual strings. “Graduated-size” beads do just what they sound like: the bead sizes go from small to large. One of our customer-favorite bead sticks is the glow-in-the-dark Deluxe Anal Beads, with a cord that doubles as a cock ring. Ringed Body Beads bend and move with your body. Beginners and experienced anal fans love vibrating anal beads, like the sensational Booty Beads.
How to use them: Lube up the beads and insert them slowly, giving your partner a chance to get used to them. You might not have to insert all the beads: when your partner says the beads feel good, you’ve gone far enough. At this point, go ahead and have dynamite sex! When your partner starts to climax, pull the beads out one at a time, straight down.
Anal Plugs: Plugs are designed to stay in place during sex. They’re tapered shapes that glide in, then widen for a satisfying full feeling. You might want to start small, perhaps with our Better Sex Anal Sex Kit that gets you going with everything you need, including our Guide To Anal Pleasure! Butt plugs can vibrate or not, and many of them come with a suction-cup base for solo play. If you’re new to anal fun, you might want to try our vibrating Tush Trainer, with a suction-cup base.
How to use them: Like anal beads, you leave the plug in during sex or masturbation. Lube the plug, then breathe deeply and relax your sphincter muscles as you lower yourself on the plug or let your partner insert it slowly. Your muscles will relax just below the widest part of the plug, holding it in place. The plug might come out, but don’t worry: using an anal plug takes practice.
Finger Rimmers: These little gems are actually very small versions of the anal plug, designed to fit just inside the anus. Stimulating and teasing the anus this way is called “rimming.” Finger rimmers are great for beginners because of the small size, and since they fit right on your partner’s finger, they’re easy to control.
How to use them: Slip the rimmer on your finger until it fits firmly, apply lube to the plug part only, then insert the plug into the anus for a delicious tease! Our customers love the Bottoms Up! Finger Rimmer. Or, if you want a choice of sizes, try the Sinclair Institute Select Silicone Explorers, a set of three satin-smooth rimmers to train your tushie.
Enjoy your anal adventures!
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